Yesterday I was watching a reality show 'airtel
super singer junior'.Various thoughts crossed my mind.
These little children were enjoying so much celebrity
status at such an young age. Nothing wrong about it. But
somehow I got a feeling that they must be definitely missing
their childhood. Not only that, after enjoying such a celebrity
status at such an young age, incase if they may not be able
to maintain it, how could they cope with that? Must be extremely
difficult for them.And the judges of these reality shows...... when
i place myself in the position of participants the immediate feeling
i get is ' how could I allow anyone to judge me or my talents'.
maybe thats y i've never been able to fit into this system and
always been a rebel. I never allow myself to be judged except by me.
Even our society doesn't want to treat anyone as equal as it always
want to play the role of the judge. It won't give u that space of
being a silent spectator.U have to perform and it eill judge.In
other words, either u be a judge or be judged.If u treat anyone
as equal they consider u as a weak personality and immediately they
will try and dominate u. you will never get the space u provide to
others here.If suppose I am an introvert and
a very private person, people will start advicind me/judging me.They
expect that one should change himself so that he can become a
cceptable and pleasant to others.But why should one pretend.
The logic given is u'll be judged and to get a good score (liking)u should
change urself. So where is the space for my individuality.
In other words they doesn't want to accept me for what i am but they
want to shape me to others liking. horrible.......for me.
Not for all. Thats y i find it very difficult to fit in.
super singer junior'.Various thoughts crossed my mind.
These little children were enjoying so much celebrity
status at such an young age. Nothing wrong about it. But
somehow I got a feeling that they must be definitely missing
their childhood. Not only that, after enjoying such a celebrity
status at such an young age, incase if they may not be able
to maintain it, how could they cope with that? Must be extremely
difficult for them.And the judges of these reality shows...... when
i place myself in the position of participants the immediate feeling
i get is ' how could I allow anyone to judge me or my talents'.
maybe thats y i've never been able to fit into this system and
always been a rebel. I never allow myself to be judged except by me.
Even our society doesn't want to treat anyone as equal as it always
want to play the role of the judge. It won't give u that space of
being a silent spectator.U have to perform and it eill judge.In
other words, either u be a judge or be judged.If u treat anyone
as equal they consider u as a weak personality and immediately they
will try and dominate u. you will never get the space u provide to
others here.If suppose I am an introvert and
a very private person, people will start advicind me/judging me.They
expect that one should change himself so that he can become a
cceptable and pleasant to others.But why should one pretend.
The logic given is u'll be judged and to get a good score (liking)u should
change urself. So where is the space for my individuality.
In other words they doesn't want to accept me for what i am but they
want to shape me to others liking. horrible.......for me.
Not for all. Thats y i find it very difficult to fit in.
